Founded by Arthur Chivichyan USC lecturer, 10 years Pepperdine MSML Judo: 4th-degree black belt
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Rite
01 · The old way
For most of history, boys didn't grow up alone.
Spartans had the agoge. Knights had squires. Every craft had its apprentices, and every village had a rite of passage. A boy was given a hard thing to do, brothers to do it with, and men who told him the truth.
And someone told him, clearly, when he had become a man.
Mentors: many Brothers: side by side The path: clear Manhood: earned
Village
02 · The village
He was raised by many men.
A grandfather who taught him to work. A coach who wouldn't let him quit. A neighbor, an uncle, an older boy he wanted to impress. None of them was his father, but each one helped make him.
Every one of them knew his name and expected something of him.
Raised by: a village Knew his name: everyone Excuses accepted: few
6:12 PM
03 · The screen
Then the village moved into his pocket.
The phone arrived, and it stayed. Afternoons that used to go to the field, the gym and the workshop now pass alone in his room, lit by a screen.
"Just one more video" turns into midnight.
Location: his room Company: none Time: 6:12 PM
Follow
04 · The feed
And the loudest voices became his mentors.
The feed doesn't care whether he grows into a good man. It cares whether he keeps watching. So the men teaching him are the ones who perform best on camera: selling shortcuts, outrage and a kind of strength that has nothing to do with character.
Optimized for: watch time Knows his name: no Wants him to: keep scrolling
Alone
05 · Alone in a crowd
Connected to everyone. Close to no one.
Hundreds of followers, and nobody notices when he doesn't show up. He holds back when others are watching. He wants a group to belong to, but a good one is harder to find than ever.
Followers: hundreds Brothers: none Missed if absent: no
Drift
06 · No finish line
And no one tells him he's become a man.
School gives him grades. Games give him levels. Neither asks him to be brave, keep his word or take responsibility for someone else.
With no challenge worth meeting, many boys simply drift. They aren't in trouble. They just aren't becoming anything.
Real challenge: none Record of effort: none Next level: unclear
Still
07 · The turn
Boys haven't changed. Their world has.
He still needs what boys have always needed: a hard thing to do, brothers to do it with, a mentor who knows his name, and a clear standard to measure himself against.
The need never went away. Only the village did.
A challenge: still needed Brothers: still needed A mentor: still needed A standard: still needed
Order
08 · The Order
So we rebuilt the village.
The Monarch Order is a mentorship community for boys 8 to 18. Weekly missions, dedicated mentors and a team that counts on him. It's the structure boys have always had, rebuilt for the world he lives in now.
Strong and kind. Confident, and respectful at home. That's the young man we're raising with you.
Ages: 11–18 Mentors: dedicated Team: his Format: online + local
Scholar
09 · Three pillars
Mind. Body. Character.
ScholarWarriorLeader
He reads, reflects and debates: Stoics, history, strategy, mental models. He learns an idea, writes what it means to him, then defends it in front of his team.
Read a passage from Marcus Aurelius. Write what it means for your week, then explain it to your team in two minutes.
Pillar: 1 / 3 Trains: the mind Missions: one per pillar, every week
Rookie
10 · The ladder
Effort gets a score. Consistency gets a record.
He earns Crowns for every mission done with real effort, and his Chain grows each week he shows up. Nine ranks run from Rookie to Monarch, and Arthur approves every promotion.
His Crowns also count for his team in the Arena: four team events a year, from the Monarch Games in fall to a winter survival march, a spring retreat and a summer rite of passage.
And once a month, local members and their families gather in person.
His scoreboardExample
0Crowns
0Week chain
1/9Rookie
Team standings · Fall ArenaWeek 1
1Team A0
2Team B his team0
3Team C0
Names and numbers are illustrative.
Monday
11 · A week in the Order
Monday, 7:00 AM. His orders arrive.
One loop, every week. Three missions, a team that's counting on him, mentors who follow up, and a report for you every Sunday.
Illustrative week. Names, times and numbers are examples.
MON · 7:00 AM
The Weekly Order lands. Theme: Courage. Three missions, one for each pillar.
TUE · 6:30 PM
Scholar: he reads a Stoic lesson on courage and writes his own take.
WED · 7:00 PM
Live group coaching online. He opens the team discussion with a question.
THU · 4:15 PM
A teammate messages him: "Log your training. We're 55 Crowns behind."
SAT · 9:00 AM
Local members train together at Hayastan MMA in North Hollywood.
SUN · 5:00 PM
His mentor reviews the week. +40 Crowns. Chain: 7 weeks.
SUN · 7:30 PM · YOUR SUNDAY REPORT
What went well
Spoke first in group coaching, which he couldn't do a month ago.
What to work on
Log training as he goes, not all on Sunday.
Ask him at dinner
"What did Marcus Aurelius say about fear?"
Now
12 · Now
The years that shape him are happening now.
Give him people to grow with, challenges worth pursuing and a standard he'll carry for life. Tell us about your son. No payment is taken to inquire.
I wanted my son to be more confident in himself, more consistent in everything he did, and more respectful to the people around him, especially his siblings. We watched the change happen in real time.
George, father of a 15-year-old
“My son really changed for the better.”
I was honestly worried about his friends. My son seemed more like a follower than a leader. Arthur completely changed that. He’s more focused on what actually matters for him now.
Sonya, mother of a 14-year-old
“They ask a lot from us in every way.”
I look forward to the training and the talks with Coach Arthur and the other coaches every week. The activities are challenging, they’re fun, and they ask a lot from us.
Johnny, member, age 13
“Monarch pushed me in a way school never did.”
I’m stronger, more confident, and I finally feel like I know what I’m working toward.
Daniel, member, age 16
For parents
How we keep him safe.
You’re trusting us with your son. Here is what that trust is built on.
Screened coaches
Every coach is screened and background-checked before working with members.
You meet us first
Every member starts with a conversation with you and with him, before anything begins.
You see his week
A report every Sunday, and a monthly check-in with Arthur for every member.
A private community
Team discussion and standings stay inside the private member community, not on public social media.
Safe training
Training is matched to his age and ability. Venue safety rules and participation waivers apply at Hayastan MMA.
Your permission, always
We ask you before using any photo or video of your son.
Build his first week
Where could he use some guidance?
Pick what matters most to your family, and you'll see what a first week could look like. We start every member with a conversation with you and with him.
His mentor reviews his work, completed missions earn Crowns for his team, and you get a Sunday report. Missions are adapted for age, ability and format.
Membership
One Order. Two ways to
belong.
Both include the same pillars, missions, mentors and Sunday reports. He can join from anywhere, or train with us in person in Los Angeles.
For perspective: Local membership costs about what one hour a week with a private tutor does. Here it buys a full week of missions, coaching, a team that counts on him and a report for you.
Join from anywhere
Online
For families who want structure, mentorship and community without living in LA.
$119
per month
or $1,190 a year, two months free
Three weekly missions for mind, body and character
Live group coaching, plus 1-on-1 support when needed
For the young man ready to pursue something extraordinary. He chooses one Quest, such as a first competition, a business or a research project, and Arthur mentors him toward it every week.
Weekly meetings in person, online or hybrid. Three-month minimum. Includes full Order membership. Details and pricing are shared after you inquire.
*Camp and Arena event fees are separate. No payment is taken to inquire.
The mentor in the middle of the village
An educator. A competitor. Your son's mentor.
Arthur Chivichyan combines graduate study in leadership, ten years teaching at USC and a lifetime in martial arts. He has coached hundreds of young people, and every member meets with him once a month.
Education
MS in Management and Leadership, Pepperdine Graziadio
Teaching
USC lecturer for ten years
Coaching
ICF Associate Certified Coach since 2017
Martial arts
Former nationally ranked U.S. judoka, fourth-degree black belt, son of Gokor Chivichyan
Monarch is built for boys 8–18. He doesn’t need to be the strongest, loudest or most confident boy in the room. What matters is a willingness to show up, try difficult things and grow. Younger boys may be considered individually.
How can an online program help with screen time?
Online sessions have a purpose and an end time. Missions lead into reading, physical practice, responsibilities and conversations away from the screen. Families can also work with mentors on device boundaries and better ways to spend free time.
What if he doesn't want to join?
Start with something he wants to improve. We include him in the introduction and explain the team, the challenges and what’s expected. It works best when he’s willing to give it a try.
Is it mostly sports?
No. Mind, body and character get equal weight. Scholar missions cover philosophy, history, strategy and clear thinking. Warrior missions cover training and sport. Leader missions cover responsibility at home and leading others.
Can he join if we don't live in Los Angeles?
Yes. Online members get the same missions, coaching, community, ranks and Sunday reports. Local membership adds Saturday training at Hayastan MMA and monthly family gatherings.
How do you keep it safe and age-appropriate?
Coaches are screened and background-checked. Venue safety rules and participation waivers apply. We ask parents for approval before using any photo or video.
Request an introduction
Let's see if this is right for your
son.
Tell us a little about him. We’ll reach out to talk about where he’s strong, where he’s stuck and what he wants. If it’s a fit, we’ll show you what his first weeks could look like.